• [deleted]@piefed.world
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    8 days ago

    She is 17, not a young child. We have been going over this for over a decade and it really comes down to her refusing to acknowledge things are not always exactly literal. We have gone over this with a therapist for over 5 years as well, because she gets so worked up about it. I have repeatedly shown her what clean means in various examples but she keeps falling back to specific nit picking every time.

    Note thst I am not referring to some kind of spotless perfection. Just not having trash around and things tidy enough to vacuum and dust and other basic cleaning practices.

    Guess I should have given every single detail so you wouldn’t assume so much to twist it into some kind of blame game for a child not listening to their parent.

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            7 days ago

            I called her my kiddo, you used child because you assumed an age. You assume a lot of shit that isn’t accurate and have painted a completely different situation than what I wrote.

            It will take a few more years for her to catch up with everyone else but we are working on it. Lack of success doesn’t indicate lack of effort or understanding.

            You are clearly a terrible person.