I had a friend from high school that I then went to college with similar to this, would constantly complain that she didn’t have a boyfriend, but any guy who tried to strike up a conversation with her was instantly stalking her, and the worst type of guy.
No girl, you dont have 8 stalkers. That guy was just in your class which is why you keep seeing him. Eventually dropped the relationship because it was too much drama.
An acquaintance from highschool kept going on about some guy stalking her. Always following her in the halls at school, following her home, and following her downtown sometimes…
He lived on the same street as her, and they both took the same computer class and had band/lunch block together.
I pointed out I recognize him, he finally hit a growth spurt and now he’s much taller and noticeable.
She insisted he convinced his parents to move closer so he could stalk her better.
I never saw him outside one day we were at Walmart and he was clearly there with his parents and little sister. Nope, stalking. She screamed at him and called him names. I left her there.
I also told him if she tried to call the cops or get lawyers involved, here’s my email and I will tell them an outside perspective.
I had a real stalker in high school. Left me weird notes, threatened my girlfriends, would call my house and hang up or pretend to cold calling to try and get me on the phone… would corner me sometimes at night after school activities and cry and scream why i won’t go out with her , she loves me so much and we’re destined to be together. she claimed to have cast ‘love spells’ on me and didn’t understand why they didn’t work… when i graduated she started mailing me love poetry and other weird shit in the mail.
but it was a girl and I was a boy, so everyone thought it was ‘cute’. ‘she just has a crush’. ‘you should give her a chance.’ etc. not a single person took thought it was bad or wrong that she did this, and my discomfort with it made me ‘gay’. everyone knew, friends, teachers, family, coaches, etc. they all laughed it off as harmless silly girl with a crush on a popular boy. i was terrified of her.
this went on for two years. she eventually gave up after she found a new target and i went to college. thank god.
I had a friend from high school that I then went to college with similar to this, would constantly complain that she didn’t have a boyfriend, but any guy who tried to strike up a conversation with her was instantly stalking her, and the worst type of guy.
No girl, you dont have 8 stalkers. That guy was just in your class which is why you keep seeing him. Eventually dropped the relationship because it was too much drama.
An acquaintance from highschool kept going on about some guy stalking her. Always following her in the halls at school, following her home, and following her downtown sometimes…
He lived on the same street as her, and they both took the same computer class and had band/lunch block together.
I pointed out I recognize him, he finally hit a growth spurt and now he’s much taller and noticeable.
She insisted he convinced his parents to move closer so he could stalk her better.
I never saw him outside one day we were at Walmart and he was clearly there with his parents and little sister. Nope, stalking. She screamed at him and called him names. I left her there.
I also told him if she tried to call the cops or get lawyers involved, here’s my email and I will tell them an outside perspective.
I had a real stalker in high school. Left me weird notes, threatened my girlfriends, would call my house and hang up or pretend to cold calling to try and get me on the phone… would corner me sometimes at night after school activities and cry and scream why i won’t go out with her , she loves me so much and we’re destined to be together. she claimed to have cast ‘love spells’ on me and didn’t understand why they didn’t work… when i graduated she started mailing me love poetry and other weird shit in the mail.
but it was a girl and I was a boy, so everyone thought it was ‘cute’. ‘she just has a crush’. ‘you should give her a chance.’ etc. not a single person took thought it was bad or wrong that she did this, and my discomfort with it made me ‘gay’. everyone knew, friends, teachers, family, coaches, etc. they all laughed it off as harmless silly girl with a crush on a popular boy. i was terrified of her.
this went on for two years. she eventually gave up after she found a new target and i went to college. thank god.