• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    I generally see a lot of criticism for the length of time it can take victims to report.

    It’s infuriating. Like they can’t wrap their head around how difficult it is to report rape and sexual assault. No empathy at all from these types of people.

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      3 days ago

      It’s very easy to believe “oh, if I were raped I would fight back and if it still happened I would report it.” It’s only after something like that happens that a person thinks (possible trigger warning)

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      “hmm, there were drugs involved, I don’t know if I want to report this. I had a chance after my clothes were taken off at one point to run out of the place naked and screaming and didn’t… how do I explain that? I’ve always hated mass incarceration and police… do I really want to be a part of reporting something?”

      etc. I don’t know if it’s actually malicious when some people don’t believe victims; it’s just some people can’t envision not reporting things immediately.