• Evil_Shrubbery@thelemmy.club
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    10 hours ago

    Maybe it just made me more aware of the true scale/extremes of existence on Earth so I can at least try to better place my experience & propaganda/ads I’m served in that context.

    Kids are remarkably resilient and adaptive, it’s like a whole evolutionary thing (not saying it can’t cause permanent damage, just that shielding causes extreme damage too - and folk later in life being unable to reconcile with the smallesta of changes in their world that they can’t do nothing about).

    Also, I’m assuming this is discussing pre-wall-gardened internet - being young and on specific ultra-processed for-profit platforms just develops a good consumer for the current oligarchy. Much like being raised by AI.

  • TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    8
    ·
    19 hours ago

    Every person’s reality is warped in one way or another. Unrestricted internet access from a young age certainly can and does warp it differently than growing up without that option, yes. But the implication that it is somehow inherently, objectively worse in such a case, I disagree with. Still upvoting because its a funny meme, I just wanted to get that opinion off my chest

  • TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    18
    ·
    23 hours ago

    Yeah, the fact I had internet access that my parents didn’t want to let me discover I was LGBT+ and not just weird and alone, how terrible /s

    • Virtvirt588@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      7
      ·
      22 hours ago

      Yep, thats one of the many things censorship banishes. The result of this is depression and constant agony of who you really are.

  • 9point6@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    43
    ·
    1 day ago

    I think this depends when you were 8

    A kid going online in the mid 90s was a very different thing to going online in the mid 10s

    Not saying there weren’t problems, but it’s pretty night and day

        • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          3
          arrow-down
          2
          ·
          22 hours ago

          Really? You mean you don’t spend a significant portion of your day trying to block out intrusive thoughts centered around disturbing imagery from all shit on the internet you so much as glanced a decade or two ago?

          I’m kinda jealous, not gonna lie.

          • Brave Little Hitachi Wand@feddit.uk
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            4
            ·
            22 hours ago

            I’m lucky, I was born with the imp of intrusive thoughts on my shoulder, and we frequently high five each other. Actual real life trauma never stood a chance.

            • Evil_Shrubbery@thelemmy.club
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              ·
              10 hours ago

              Also you develop a good management system that works for you because that is how you “survive” the early years (2-10?) when you are taught habits/productivity, social skills, etc - regardless if they come easy to you or if it’s just a bunch of effort/adrenaline/masking dumped into it.

              (But then we got old & it’s getting harder to keep up with it.)

              • Brave Little Hitachi Wand@feddit.uk
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                2
                ·
                10 hours ago

                Adult child of an emotionally immature parent - I wasn’t really taught social skills so much as listening skills, and the quiet delight of books and time to oneself. The loneliness epidemic has been the best thing that ever happened to me.

      • Albbi@piefed.ca
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        10
        ·
        1 day ago

        It woulda taken you 5 days to get the video, and someone was sure to pick up the phone line before that finished.

    • SethranKada@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      14 hours ago

      I was around 11 or 12. I’m pretty sure I was looking for porn, but they had all the good stuff blocked, so I had to look in increasingly obscure places just to find something that could make me feel emotions.

      Really, the lack of access to good quality porn really screwed me up as a kid. I ended up watching far darker stuff because it was the only shit I could find.

      • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        23 hours ago

        Man I can’t believe we used to watch that shit on dares and then brag about the fucked up shit we’d seen.

        “Oh, you haven’t seen the screwdriver video? Get a load of this loser, he hasn’t even seen the screwdriver video.”

        (Note: I was the “loser” in this situation who hadn’t yet seen the screwdriver video).

        I remember people bragging about watching the Serbian Film. I read the synopsis on wikipedia and was like “what the fuucck.”

        That and the whole dark humor and anti-joke trends made for a really fucked up perspective for our generation…

  • bitteroldcoot@piefed.social
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    4
    ·
    1 day ago

    HAH, I grew up with a rotary phone and a black and white TV using an antenna. We got 3 and 1/2 channels. If you wanted the 4th channel, one of us kids had to grab the antenna and stand there.